They see the 2024 election results so clearly: racism and misogyny lost Harris the vote. But they can’t face their own internalized preference for a white man’s opinions and feelings.
Read MoreToday I grieve.
Read MoreEvery day is full of great beauty and tremendous sorrows. How rarely we are able to fully witness and feel them both at once.
Read MoreRichard and Maggie were the first people I knew who truly showed up for life—and for the people in their lives—with total joy, compassion, and love.
Read MoreCynicism is self-protective; it requires wary intelligence, as well as hyper vigilance—or, as a friend recently described, an exhausting state of “waiting for the other shoe to drop.”
Read MoreI can admire her artistry and appreciate what I learned from it, but I’ll always understand her stories as a way of processing her silence, and often excusing it.
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